One way of boosting your lesbian stepdaughter's confidence can help her become more at ease around other women is by providing her with sexual rewards. If you've ever been there, done that - you know how powerful your fingers and hands can be, and how they can take an adult away in the bedroom. In particular, your fingers can be so amazing because they are so soft and sensitive, and yet they're not really part of your body. That's what I mean when I say they're powerful like a viper. They seduce and entice and make her feel amazing just by rubbing her clitoris and g-spot gently, stimulating her outer parts gently..