How to get a mature woman hot and bothered to death is an interesting question for any man. Mature women are generally more in control of their sexual urges to learn how to please them takes practice. If a man is naturally not one who experiences strong orgasms easily, he should avoid masturbation and try something else to reach that state. The women who can control their orgasms without any stimulation from a man will often achieve an amazing climax when she does manage to stimulate him mentally and his penis..