If you are old or even younger than twenty, you might still be a virgin. Young girls are usually more outgoing and adventurous when they are younger but once they hit the menopause, they become quieter and more reclusive. Older women can feel like they lost their youth even if they are just in their thirties or forties. Some women tend to remain in the same stage of their life for several years after reaching maturity. One way that these mature women and those younger girls can meet is through masturbation..