Recently, I was talking to a friend of mine who was a 43-year-old woman who explained that she masturbated every night before bed and used to go searching for toys to use on herself. Well, it turns out that toys were not the issue; it was the fact that she would masturbate with the wrong toys which wouldn't give her the results she wanted. In other words, a lot of women just don't know what toys to use when they masturbate. So let's take a look at some of the options that a woman can choose from when she is thinking about trying to make her orgasm using masturbation and toys..