A mature cougar is a mature woman who masturbates regularly, has her own masturbation fetish and often prefers to perform with someone else rather than having it alone. While it may seem that this is the way women choose to spend their time (men are often much more passive while women are very active in that regard), there are also times when a mature woman needs to masturbate and not feel guilty about it because she knows she is doing it with a partner or when masturbating alone. For example, a mature female can use a wet pillow to masturbate instead of a dry one so that she has something soft to grip onto and it's much easier for her to imagine that she is pleasuring someone else. The same holds true if she chooses to masturbate using a vibrator instead of a penis. These toys are designed to be placed into the vagina with the lubricant already inside, and they are designed for easy masturbation with minimal mess..