If you are a mom and you want your kids to learn how to be mature, then your first step is to be an amateur mom. Wait until your teenage kids are older to start telling them off and acting like they are the adult now. Being an amateur in bed may work when your husband or boyfriend is not around, but it will definitely backfire if you tell him or her to "get back" or "not tonight". If he is too young, he may just think that you don't know what you are talking about. You don't want to lose your husband over a stupid argument, so start acting like a mature woman from the beginning, or at least let him see some of your actions..