"Big Girls Don't Have It" is a video that tells you how to make your girl orgasm very easily by using proper hand and big toy techniques. Sarah Vandella claims that it's better for women to masturbate with toys, however many men are starting to see the value in a hand-designed toy. She also talks about how big girls don't have the same needs as smaller women, therefore a large toy wouldn't be able to give her what she wants, she would prefer if you would use your fingers or a vibrator on her. On the other hand, if you get a large toy it can put a lot of pressure on your hand and you may end up pulling your hand away from her. In this video, Sarah Vandella uses a cherry dildo that measures 32 inches long, this is one big toy that any man would want to use on his partner..