My younger brother and I had a long standing debate about whether or not my father was an active role in my life. On the one hand he said that he was very involved, but on the other hand he said that I should speak to an adult if I ever wanted to get serious with him. We had a good long talk about this and he eventually told me that his father had a secret desire to be a "bigger" man and had spent some time dating a married woman (that has since been cleared). My question for you is, what the hell do perverted parents do to their children?.