When your boyfriend finds out that you're having sex with another girl, he probably thinks you're going gay or he's going to start thinking about getting a divorce. While it's understandable that you may feel hurt and even upset about this, you need to focus on the fact that you two are in love. This means that if your husband doesn't love you anymore, then you need to tell him. The following are 5 tips to help you win back his love and stop being a distraction to him..