When it comes to love, a man's attention is on the woman and how she fulfills his emotional needs. When a man sees his wife drooling or lying on the bed with another man, he finds that she is not satisfying his needs. He then decides that she lacks the maturity and respect to continue the act and decides to get back with the other guy. Now, this is where the "courageous" theory comes in. If a woman can successfully ignore the pleasurable aspect of having sexual relations with her boyfriend and still continue to make him happy, then she will be considered a courageous woman who is able to make her man feel safe and loved..