It is interesting that many men have trouble when it comes to understanding how the old woman likes it from behind. While, on one level it would seem that she would be enjoying sex, many men cannot understand why she would not like it when the man does most of the work. On one level, she is probably enjoying the attention and wants to take part in the sexual activity, but on a deeper level, she is probably trying to figure out if she can trust her new partner. Here are some things that you need to understand about how a mature woman will think when it comes to having sex with a young man:.