When a man slaps the woman who defines her style and personality - that woman is called a "hatchet" or a "fat old hoe," according to politically correct terminology. One might call her a curvy lady if she slaps a curvy guy. The difference is that the slapper will not dare slap her curvy boyfriend, instead she tells him how rude he is, which really irritates him, thus escalating the situation into a sexual assault. This is all about control and dominance - you are the one controlling the situation and the one that are in control, not the other way around. So, before you get offended, or think that this is just a pickup line, pause and think about what this means for your relationship..