In case you haven't noticed by now, the office is getting meaner. The most popular bullying activity that has gained mythical proportions in recent years has been an old boys' game of "passing the parcel", where the bully passes his parcel from hand to hand as quietly and slowly as possible through several offices, secretaries, receptionists and secretaries to unsuspecting customers. If you've ever seen a particularly nasty office romance filmed on a TV channel or in a movie you might have recognized the expression on the faces of the participants. The old boy bullies would often raise an eyebrow, as if to say "what sort of sick game is this?" While the office play act may seem harmless, the effect it has on the victims can be life changing..