So how do I make my girlfriend love me more if I am so naughty with my big thick hard dick? There is one thing you can do that will really turn her on when I am milking her. I would recommend you start off by talking to her about her favorite things in bed. Tell her you love to suck on small titters, and then start with the bigger ones like her clitoris and vaginal lips. Once you get her aroused enough, you can introduce a new toy that will help her reach new heights of ecstasy while you are pleasuring her to the max in the privacy of your bedroom..