Masturbating milf prefers toys over sex. Toys are safer than sex, and the chances of getting hurt by a toy is very low. Toys such as vibrators, vibrating dildos, and sex toys like vibrators, are much better than trying to use your man-made penis or vagina. These toys are especially useful if you're not that close sexually, and just want to explore what a vibrator can do for your woman's pleasure. A great example of a vibrator you could use if you wanted to give her a good orgasm right there and then would be the Baby Doll vibrator which is great for orgasms only and doesn't require penetration (unlike some vibrators that are made specifically for use with penetration). However, if you want to give her multiple orgasms this might not be a good choice..