A kissing good time is hard to come by when you're a mom of a gay teenager and a girlfriend-to-be, so it's especially important for you to remind yourself that you're loved and appreciated in your own little world of the lesbian scene. A loving, romantic evening between moms can bring the two of you close and give you the opportunity to spend some time together. So the next time you think of kissing your girlfriend, just cross your fingers and remember that you can do this-only if you let her. Or go ahead and make an embarrassing joke; you know you love her and she loves you too, but hey, it's your job to act like a grownup..