Is StepMom aware of her actions? What a surprise to our family when StepMom suddenly became more maternal and took charge of the decisions for our children. If you have ever met your mom, you will know that she is an independent individual who has made great strides in her career as a business owner and author of several self-help videos. Perhaps she hasn't noticed, though, that she has also made some regrettable mistakes which could be placing our children's life in danger. We must let our stepmother know that our children are in their lives, and they need to be protected..