My Granny and 55-year-old stepmother are divorcing and she is fighting with my little brother over the custody of our little girl. I am on one side, a very masculine, decisive, strong and brave guy, while she is on the other side, a very feminine, submissive, caring, nurturing and maternal type of woman. I am her son's legal protector, while she is his Mommy. So it goes without saying that I can't back down from my principles, and if my granny feels like she can abuse or be abusive to my little boy, well, that is up to her. But my granny is constantly disrespecting me, calling me all sorts of names like "stepmother" and telling me that she doesn't care about me, even though I have raised her child, fed them, gave them a good education, etc..