A mature tutor uses modern lingo, correct grammar, and proper pronunciation to communicate and teach the English language to missionary older students who are native speakers of other languages but whose English is very poor. A missionary Young Woman's Guide to the Bible explains how a mission handvideo describes the handjob as between an adult man and an immodest adult; according to the bible, only one person in a relationship can use the bare hands to have sex. Missionaries explain that this is the only way the elder member of the couple can enjoy the flesh during missionary service. This handjob between an old man and an old woman is referred to in the scriptures as being "a thing betwixt." The tutor will teach the young women of the missionary pair how to talk dirty to their husbands so as to please them and to please their God by performing what is required of them. A missionary tutor uses correct grammar, proper spelling, and easy conversational vocabulary to communicate effectively and in a manner that an older person can understand..