My blonde step daughter and her boyfriend have been going out for over six months now. We are both open-minded when it comes to different sexual activities but my daughter is still apprehensive about having sex with her step-father. We used to have sex once in a while, on days that we were supposed to do some housework or other things but that was it. I love my daughter and the fact that she only sees me three or four times a week should be enough to make her happy that she doesn't have to change her lifestyle just because she's been living with her stepfather. This is the problem with teenagers that go off to college - they start missing the single life, which is fine if you're happy, but most of us are not..