Milford writes about her step-daughter's sexual abuse at the hands of her mother and other family members. When she reads about this in her video, she tries to give her daughter a hope that she can make it, but finds that she has let her lesbian step-daughter take over. I thought about this while reading, because after all, if you don't love someone enough to teach them not to eat their own vagina, then why are you telling your child not to do that to them. The author tells her step-daughter that if she doesn't ask her Lesbian lover to get down on her knees and give her oral sex, then she might not be able to go through life with her Lesbian lover, because that might be 'too lesbian.' So, I would have to agree that maybe there should be a little sensitivity when dealing with young children, but what's the harm in a little threesome if both girls are on board?.