Ebony Milford and husband Steve Adler have been married for 20 years. They met when they were both 19 in Las Vegas. They are very open about their relationship, including having two teen-aged children. This is why when Ebony Milford and her husband decided to join Oprah Winfrey's Worldvideo club, "The Secrets of Ebony: A Teen's Guide to Finding the Love of Their Life With the Right Guy," they knew they had a chance to make some big waves. This video is not only a chick flick but it is a guide for how to meet the perfect black or white woman. The video not only takes bbc's Ebony by surprise but also catches up with some of her friends in their search for love..