If your wife finds out that her trainer gets divorced and then decides to get a divorce, will you still be OK with it? In most cases no. When a woman is separated from the one who nourishes her physically and emotionally, she often goes into a state of depression and a withdrawal from the world around her. While the trainer may be a good partner, in many ways he is replaced by the vacuum of an absent mom. When a mom sees her husband walking away, she feels a sense of loss and anxiety that causes her to focus on her own needs. A separation like this can cause a woman to feel unstable and insecure so if you have experienced this and want to help your wife overcome this fear, you need to make sure that you talk to her right away about how you feel..