After finding out that my stepson has been curious about me and our relationship, I decided to write this video to help other stepmoms like me who have been in this situation. My son is ten years old and he recently asked me how I'd describe our relationship. Naturally I used the words cougar and stepmom interchangeably but he wanted to know what else we did to spice things up. I let him know that there are many things you can do to spice up your relationship between you and your stepson. This is especially helpful for women who have children as it gives them an outlet for their anger while they are still parenting. If your relationship with your stepson has hit a wall and you need some ideas on how to reignite his desire for you, I hope this video helps..