If your stepson or daughter has developed a love for their mother, she can turn this "nanny dog" into a "sister-in-law" or "stepmother" by constantly turning her stepson's attention on her when he is around. Hot stepmom wants to be pampered, so she'll do anything she can to make sure that her stepson or daughter gets all the attention they can get. Unfortunately, not all women know how to show their affection in a way that will make their stepson or daughter happy. When your stepson or daughter discovers his or her new partner, they may be a little confused and disappointed that Mom isn't feeling as guilty as they thought she was. Here are some stepmom panties tips for turning your stepson or daughter on when their new partner is around:.