One of my old ladies has four step kids and she has to deal with all the drama and back-talk from all of the children. She just does not have time to deal with this and it really gets old. She decided to switch her kids over to a lesbian couple and it has been great so far. Of course I understand that she is an older woman and can not handle as much lesbian parenting as some of the other older ladies may be able to handle. But for the most part, the kids have been great with all the lesbian couples..