It's easy to see why my boyfriend left me so many times after our first date. He was crazy about me, but there was something about me that attracted him to me in spite of everything. This is the main reason why I ended up with a bunch of women after he left. I got all the attention from hot girlfriends who wanted to sleep with me (all the while I'm jealous and upset that my boyfriend left me). Here are some examples of what a man should do after leaving a girlfriend:.