Step moms often struggle with how to seduce their step children. I have seen plenty of examples over the years, but here are some tips and tricks from a relationship expert that works with step moms: Step moms, get to know your teen's, they love you. This is important because they get very little attention from Dad and the kids remember when Mom is happy, so when she is super happy and supportive they will see that. Step moms also need to be aware that these teens have boundaries, they do not want someone to make them feel like they are making themselves sick by seducing someone else. They are going to tell you if they are ready for a relationship, but sometimes they feel like they are trapped. The key is to always be respectful of this and they will eventually let you know..