Women, even more so than men like younger guys with a bit of a sense of humor, and younger women in particular seem to like a guy who can fill up her empty space when she's not around. So, I'm going to share with you the best ways that you can get your granny to orgasm with your fingers (sort of). First, some cougars love it when you use both hands, so this may be something you can experiment with. Here are the ways:.