Don't let sweet Don't be a reason for you not to continue your relationship with your stepmother. I love my stepmother, she is so sweet, kind, understanding and loving. In fact the sweet sinner dad relationship with his stepdaughter has saved my marriage and brought back my stepson to my family, although my stepdaughter had left long before. She is a strong independent woman, strong in character and very loving to her stepchildren even though they are of age to know better, like any good mother she knows when its time to let them have their own life and get on their own two feet..