If you were a teenager caught sucking a boy's dick and punished by your mother, would you still find yourself with the same feelings? Would you still feel the same shame as a 20-year-old man when looking back on your past and wondering what the repercussions of your actions were? If you are a mom and your son was caught blowing his young friend, would you still have the same feelings towards him? Or would you want to punish him in your own way?.