A mature couple should do their best to please their partner in bed, and when it comes to giving her pleasure during lovemaking, the more experienced the man is the better his chances of pleasing his partner are. And although it's common knowledge that a woman's pleasure is largely affected by how her lover stimulates her, it still pays for a man to experiment and see what his partner reacts to. One thing I know for sure is that most women will react differently when a man gives her a handjob and a huge cumshot. The following are some tips on how you can please your partner during sex using hand and foreplay techniques:.