Step Moms are often looked down on by their husbands or even their in-laws. They are often seen as being less than attractive, less happy, and generally not up to the same standards as other women. This has been painted black by some men, but there is no truth to it. Many single moms are successful at being mothers and have very good careers. Here are two reasons why I believe it is OK for a step mom to have a handjob:.