Finding out a handjob from a mature woman can turn your world on its head, but sometimes it can be very embarrassing too. When you are getting a massage for the first time, take note of how she is dressed and what is in her handbag. If she is really good with giving massages, she will probably go out of her way to make sure her customer looks and feels special when receiving her hand. When you are getting a handjob from someone who is much older, it's usually obvious right away. So, what do you do if you are unsure whether or not the massage that you just got from your girlfriend/wife/mom is good?.