Big Ass Mom and Playmate First Time Mothers are the new video of Mommy to be with open discussions on mothers and their kids. This video discusses the black, white and brown women's lives, experiences and view points on what it really takes to be a good mother. The video talks about how there are black, white and brown women who choose to remain single because they have children, while others chose to stay in a relationship but without children. It talks about the pervert mom that screaming at her kids or the mother who is quiet while she screams because she thinks she rules the house and her kids are too young to know better. I liked how the author wrote about how most black women remain single because they are afraid to commit, the author also gives examples of other mothers like Leida Antony who chose not to have any more children because she couldn't stand her belly or that she didn't like the way she looked when she was pregnant, so that scared her..