If you don't bang him like a black woman what is it about a white girl that he finds so attractive? This is a question that many men ask themselves when they encounter a beautiful woman. First of all, you need to know that it does not have anything to do with her race. If you don't act like a black woman in order to get a white man to love you then there is a very good chance that your man will never have the urge to do so and that is just fine by him..