After spending time with my friend, we decided to talk to our local married lady about this topic and see what she had to say about it. It turns out, this is not a big issue for most women, especially if the man has been cheating on them. The difference between a married man and a single man is that the woman with the husband/ boyfriend knows exactly how much time he's spent with the other woman, how many children they have and so forth. If you are a lonely divorced mom who is having trouble getting your ex back, you need to find out why you are so unsuccessful. Here are the reasons:.