There is no doubt that the teen and the cougar are close companions. The teen looks up to the cougar for her skills in bed, she takes care of his needs and wants nothing more than to be with her man when he is not with her. So it would seem that the teen is the one who is benefited by the relationship, but it is often not the case. It is usually the brunettes who are the main beneficiaries of the relationship, but hey, that's what a girl wants isn't it?.