As the proud mother of a young athletic stepson, the first thing I did was check with my soon to be ex-wife about this whole "curvy on top" thing. My first reaction was that she'd love it, but she just didn't want to see my man drooling over some twenty-something year old woman. I also wasn't sure I approved as I thought there were a lot of women who enjoyed the idea of being on top and it wasn't something I was all that keen on. So I kept my options open and tried a few things. The result was a big fat thick female man who loved being on top, it was way better than before (before my husband made me get a real job) and I still get loads of compliments when I wear it..