Is being a naughty and a horny Mommy all it takes to get your Ex back? I think there is more than one answer to this question. However, the most important factor is that you have to do something before your Ex gets back to you. Your Ex must know that you are a changed person after the breakup. Before getting back together with your Ex, you have to be in tip top shape to get his or her attention and make him or her want you back..