My Granny recently went through a messy divorce and left my dad and me. She left an abusive husband and four kids (ages six and two), a horse, a boat, and a trailer behind. She told me that she loved the older guys, but didn't want to leave them when she went through so much pain. Her health was a wreck as well, suffering from chronic bronchitis, pneumonia, and a heart condition (which required open heart surgery) all of which left her bed-ridden and bed-wearless for over a year..