The foursome is a hotbed of sexual activity for many, but not for everyone and when you're faced with a cheating spouse, you may have to come to the realization that they don't want to be caught. Cheaters hide their affection for each other behind thick wigs, sunglasses and, yes, big ass chaps. They don't care if they get caught or not; it's better to be seen than not at all. But confronting the cheating stalker doesn't mean you have to resort to some sick, sado-masochistic act of violence, such as:.