My friend, stepmom wants to know how to teach my 8 year old daughter to like kissing a woman...step mommy. This is the first question I asked her when I discovered my daughter was going through puberty. My stepmom then said she had heard of this theory (pardon the pun) about oral sex being healthy for arousal and this theory has been substantiated in a number of different studies. After thinking about it for a while, my friend replied, "I guess so." Although she admitted that she didn't quite understand how it worked, she still felt it was a good idea and suggested that my daughter begin using this oral stimulation with her girlfriend..