"Old Emily" by Holly Perkins is a steamy, erotic, video about a cheating wife and the dildo she got rid of years ago... She used to say that the biggest turn on in bed was a big hard dildo. Her rationale: "A big hard dildo makes you feel like a man." I think Emily's point is lost on most women, but if your man likes a hard dildo in bed than give it to him, just make sure you keep the receipts..