From all of the posts I have written about rebuffing, and bedding together - REFUSING is probably the most interesting option. This is the option for mature German women that want to bed only swinger women or bisexual women looking to swingerize. The concept behind REFUSING is pretty simple - you want to get her number and then when she gives you her number - you send her an email telling her that you were thinking of her but she's not ready for a foursome yet. This is a little controversial because some people think that this is sexual harassment. So, I thought I'd give all of you guys a general run down on what REFUSING entails, and why it is a great option for mature German women looking to swingerize..