When a tiny babysitter caught on masturbating by her mom's boyfriend begs to get some of her time in the "lavish" bedroom, we have to laugh and play safe with toys. Toys are great for relieving stress and re-establishing a sense of security in a child. A safe toy is one that does not encourage or teach a child to act out. A safe toy should also help your child relax, so it's really the kind of toys you would want as a kid instead of toys made to appeal to your "grown up" daughter..