My wife and I had a difficult time six months ago when our son found out that we were living a threesome. My wife and I had made it clear from the start that we did not want to have a threesome because there were many risks to that lifestyle. Our son, however, did not know any better. He continued to live with my wife and me, and even started dating one of her friends. We confronted him about his girlfriend, but he just ignored us and believed that it was cool to date a girl who worked at the club..