In this New York Times expose, Cherie DeVille, a 37-year-old mother of two says that she caught her son's friend, Ryan, in the act of performing fellatio on her daughter. While the act itself is harmless, Ms. DeVille says that her son's friend did not have the respect of their entire family to think it appropriate to relate his mother while she was pregnant. When Mom asked her son if he thought it was okay that his friend performed oral sex on her, he said "Of course it is! That's just my kind of humor." Later in life, Ryan goes to jail and his mother says she wishes that she would have never caught her son doing such a thing as he was only trying to make his friend happy..