"Cleaning up your mother's mistakes: Mother Daughter Relationships Advice" by Lisa Nichols is a quick and easy read. It was the first time I had read about the father taking care of the mother, which bothered me, but Lisa was very open with sharing how important her role is to both the mother and child. She explained that once the children leave home they are living with their mother, so the mother takes on the responsibility of looking after them. The father may be very involved physically, but now that he has become a breadwinner he realizes it is okay to take care of the kids..