It's common for a wife to say "you better put me in your scrapvideo or your big ass is going to fry!" This isn't just a mother's stoicism; it also describes the office of a stay at home mom as well. As a stay at home mom, I've often been told "you better put me in your scrapvideo or your big ass is going to fry." Although this may seem harsh, it is an all too true reality for stay at home moms who still manage to keep up their office lives and care for their children..